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Tries to control where
you go and what you do. You don't
see family
or friends to avoid your partner's
jealousy or anger.
|
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Screams at
you, throws things, opens your mail, reads your
journal, or
breaks or steals your things. |
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Wants you to
need them for money or expects you to support them. |
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Withholds medications
or hormones or puts you in situations that jeopardize
your health and safety. |
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Blames their
behavior on alcohol, drugs, or a history of abuse. |
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Coerces you
into making decision through guilt, anger, or by
saying
"...if you loved me you would do this...". |
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Ridicules,
humiliates, or belittles you. |
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Disrespects
your safe words, rules, or boundaries. |
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Your life is
smaller. |
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You find you're
changing your behavior to deal with their moods. |
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You're
unsure where an S/M scene begins or ends. |
|
You need to
identify your sexual orientation or gender identity
to what they want. |
